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HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE

Hello friends i have had lots of questions about how to make someone like you and not only to like you but really like you. Everyone of us wants his or her life to influence other people, we all want to impact our world, but how can we do it? well here are simple steps you and i can follow and draw everyone to ourselves.                    3   TECHNIQUES IN HANDLING PEOPLE    If you really want to know how to handle or maintain people to always be with you. 1.   Don't criticize, condemn or complain  ; if you always complain, condemn or criticize people, no one would like to be around you. 2. Give honest and sincere appreciation ; everyone wants to hear something good about themselves, so learn to compliment people but do it sincerely. 3. Arouse in the other person an eager want ; Let people who come to you know their worth, that there's so much good things in them and they should pursue.                                   6 WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU        

THE STORY OF THE BOLD RABBIT. A GREAT STORY TO LEARN FROM

Have you noticed some people will always try to stop your vision, or say something to intimidate you? Have you witnessed anything like that? well this is a story of a rabbit we can all learn an important lesson from. Please don't forget to leave a comment. Enjoy the story.           O nce a rabbit went to a supermarket, and asked, please do you have carrots? the supermarket attendant replied we do not have carrots here, go back. The rabbit went home and returned the next day.          Please do you have carrots, the attendant replied no we don't have any here, go back, It went back home and the next day returned. The rabbit asked again please do you have carrots, the supermarket attendant got angry and yelled on top of her voice, how many times must I tell you we don't have carrots, if you return again I shall thrust a nail into your head with a hammer, go away.         Three days later, the rabbit came back again to the supermarket, and said,  Rabb

BE MORE CONCERNED WITH WHAT GOD THINKS ABOUT YOU THAN WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU.

HOW DO YOU MEET WITH GOD? You ever wondered how some people thrive in their christian life?  well i guess you know some..enjoy this story.             A pastor's wife was intrigued when she heard a person say, "one hour is only 4 percent of a day. She had not thought about time this way. Desiring more prayer time in her life, she thought surely she could give God at least 4 percent of her day. She determined to try it.            Therefore, rather than try to fit prayer into her schedule, she decided to fix a prayer time, and then fit the rest of the day around it. Her children were now old enough to travel to school alone, so by 8;30 each morning, s hush fell over her home. She knew her best hour of prayer would be between 8;30 and 9;30 A.M. To guarantee she was not uninterrupted, She made it known in the church that, except for emergencies, she would be grateful if people didn't call her until 9;30 in the morning.          To her surprise, no one in the c

PEOPLE WHO KNOW NOTHING ABOUT YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY

Have you ever wondered how and why people who know nothing about you, are the ones who always have something to say about everything? well sit down and enjoy this story. THE KEY TO FAILURE IS TO TRY TO PLEASE EVERYONE.         The story is told of a painter who desired to produce one work which would please the entire world. She drew a picture which required her utmost skill and took it to the public market place.        She posted directions at the bottom of the piece for people to mark each portion of the picture that didn't meet their approval. The spectators came and, in general applauded the work. But each, eager to make a personal critique, marked a small portion of the picture. By evening, the painter was mortified to find the entire picture had become a blot.       The next day the painter returned  with the copy of the original picture. This time she asked the spectators to mark portions of the work they admired. The spectators again complied. When the arti

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HOW TO LET YOUR PAST, PAINS AND HURTS GO AND MOVE FORWARD IN LIFE

We’ve all been hurt. You can’t be an adult — or teen — alive today who hasn’t experienced some kind of emotional pain. Letting go can be hard because it means letting go of aspects of your past - aspect of you . It also means letting go of your expectations of how things have been . Letting go hints of being wrong or allowing someone else to be right (when you know that what they did was wrong). It hurts. I get that. But what you  do  with that hurt is probably  more important  than the hurt itself. Would you prefer to get back to being an active liver of life? Or do you prefer to ruminate endlessly about the past and something that cannot be changed? In short, how do you let go of past hurts and move on? Let’s find out… Blaming others for our hurt is what most of us start off doing. Somebody did something wrong, or they wronged us in some way that mattered to us. We want them to apologize. We want them to acknowledge what they did was  wrong or we may want them back.